I think one of the reasons you do well in putting together long-term matches is that you listen well in your initial client interviews and go out of your way to insure a reasonable array of common interests, politics, educational and cultural experiences before you put people together for the first time. Whomever I met through your efforts has always been an appropriate match and was attractive, bright, accomplished and interesting. It was certainly that way with D., she has became the light of my life and now my life partner.
Well into my 60's, divorced for over 15 years, and very tired of dating and short-term relationships, I was introduced by Sandy last spring to a kind and very lovely woman. We live about 60 miles from each other but spend almost every weekend together and just got back from a two-week vacation in Patagonia and are very happy--hoping to spend our lives together. When you think it's too late, all it takes is Sandy and a little luck.
What a pleasure to work with you! I remember our first phone conversation: me, the usually confident 54-year-old divorced business woman feeling out of my element and more than a little nervous; you, the thoughtful and reassuring key to my social future. I write to thank you for providing your unique portal to the world of eligible, competent, interesting men. You carefully and artfully do the front end work — the vetting, the selection, the introduction. You coach. You advise. You set the stage for the successful meeting. Your professionalism and expertise are highly valued. Your wealth of knowledge and years of experience are inspirational. You have very good judgment, remarkable instincts, and a rare gift of intuition about matters of the heart. Working with you is a delight. You make the process easy, straightforward, efficient and fun! Thank you, Sandy! I so appreciate you and your special blend of personal attention and service.
Now that I am seven months into my relationship with a wonderful woman, I have some perspective on your process and our work together. I am writing to express my sincere appreciation for your efforts on my behalf. Helping someone look for a serious relationship (in their 50's and 60's) is a challenging task and requires, among many other things, a great deal of patience. Everyone that you introduced me to was as represented, and regardless of whether chemistry existed in a particular case, it was always positive to spend time with a nice, self-actualized person. In addition to all of the advice that you dispensed during the process, there was never a hint of pressure and you let me take my time and meet a wide range of people, which in the end helped you to point me in the right direction. I hope that you are having a great year and that people who are seriously looking for someone are finding you!
Because of you, I am in love with a wonderful man and I think we are going to have a beautiful future together. I am happier right now that I have been in years. Having a loving partner to build a relationship with has made my life much more interesting and complete. I am extraordinarily impressed by your instincts about people and the amount of work you do to make your clients happy. I also want to thank you for all the fun I have had talking to you - I thought working with you would be fun when I first met you and I was right. What I could not imagine was how happy I would be today! Sincerely and warmly,
I just came back from a wonderful week in the Caribbean with my new love. After my divorce, the last thing I ever expected was to ever again find someone so enthralled with me that he would ask me to go away over Valentine’s Day. We are both very happy. I thought it was over for me at age 59, but you proved me wrong. You helped me find a man who met my criteria in education, interests and livelihood and who was interested in a long-term stable relationship. Thank you!
New York is so fortunate to have you! You care so much! All the lovers to be are very lucky to have you there. Happy St Valentine’s Day!
I never thought at 60 that I would find the love of my life, but I did! It was so reassuring to work with Sandy after being divorced for 10 years and not having dates in many years. Sandy was with me every step of the way. It was like having a best friend who knows what the dating world is like, Most of my friends are either in long term relationships or are divorced and not dating, so having Sandy's comforting advice was very helpful to me. I am so fortunate! All of my friends love my story! I really can't thank Sandy enough for finding B and also for giving me a great deal of confidence that dating can be fun and lead to a new life partner!
Virtually all the introductions you made for me were exactly the kind of men I was looking for. You are truly skilled and a passionate professional. All the best,
When I found myself single in my sixties after a long marriage, and having moved from the suburbs to the city, I had no idea how I would meet suitable women. People at this point in life don’t congregate as we did when we were young. I could have joined yoga classes or book groups, but the odds of meeting someone seemed low. I looked on Internet dating websites with dread. With your guidance within a few dates I met someone that fits with me incredibly well. We have parallel histories and much in common and have been together exclusively for a year and a half now. I light up every time we get together. Thank you!